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The Father's Menu

Apostle Dr. Richard Udoh

Wednesday, October 2, 2024

HONOR YOUR SPOUSE

It’s imperative that we love our spouses—wives should honor their husbands, and husbands should love their wives. The fundamental key to thriving as a family unit is built on the foundation of honor and love. Marriage is a beautiful covenant that unites two individuals in love, respect, and mutual care. One of the most essential elements in sustaining a healthy and fulfilling marriage is the principle of honor. Honoring your spouse goes beyond love or affection; it encompasses respect, appreciation, and a deep commitment to cherishing their value in your life.

Honor begins with recognizing the value of your spouse. Every person is unique, created in the image of God, and endowed with their own strengths, talents, and perspectives. When you view your spouse through the lens of their God-given worth, it transforms how you interact with them. It cultivates a deeper appreciation for their presence in your life, shifting your focus from their shortcomings to their strengths. This mindset fosters an atmosphere of love and eliminates bitterness. As Romans 12:10 (ESV) instructs, “Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor.”

Honoring your spouse is more than just an act—it’s a way of life that builds a strong, lasting marriage. When you consistently choose to value, respect, and cherish your partner, you create an atmosphere of love and unity. This kind of relationship not only brings joy and fulfillment but also reflects the love of Christ, who calls us to love and honor one another deeply.

Confession:

I declare that I see my spouse through the eyes of God. I choose to love, honor, and cherish them as Christ loves the Church. I am patient, kind, and gracious in our relationship. I acknowledge the divine purpose God has placed in them, and I support them in fulfilling it. Our love is rooted in God’s truth, and we grow stronger together in unity, peace, and joy. I speak life over our relationship, and we thrive in the blessings of the Lord. Amen!

Further Reading:

Prov 5:19 “Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.”

1 John 4:18 “There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love.”

Read through the bible in 1 year: Isaiah 64:1-24 Philippians 3:4-21 Psalm 74:1-23 Proverbs 24: 15-16

Read through the bible in 2 years: Neh 11-12 & Ps 89