The Father's Menu
Apostle Dr. Richard Udoh
Saturday, February 5, 2022
HONOR YOUR PARENTS
Honor (respect, obey, care for) your father and your mother, so that your days may be prolonged in the land the Lord your God gives you.”
Exodus 20:12
Main Text: John 19:26
Children are to honor their parents, even after they become adults. However, the command to obey is temporary (Gal. 4:1-2). Honor naturally leads to obedience if nothing is asked contrary to God's laws, but honor and obedience are not synonymous. The scriptures teach that when a child marries he is to leave his father and mother and cleave unto his mate (Gen. 2:24). Parental dominance that extends into marriage is the source of many divorces and much marital strife. Yet, a child is to honor his parents for all their life.
The definition of the word 'honor' means 'to esteem, respect', and the Greek word from which 'honor' is translated means 'to prize, i.e. to fix a valuation upon'. There are many applications of children honoring their parents. Certainly, one of the violations of this commandment today, is children esteeming and respecting the opinions of their peers above those of their parents. The idea that parents are out of date and therefore out of touch, is a devaluation of parents. Children should value the experience and wisdom of their parents more than their peers.
It says in Exodus 20:12 and Deuteronomy 5:16 that honoring your father and mother is the first commandment with a promise. This command is the first one of the Ten Commandments that gives a promise of blessing to those who obey it. The promised blessing is long life and things going well. John is the only gospel writer to give us this account of Jesus' last ministry to His mother. Even in the face of His own extreme suffering, Jesus thought of His mother and honored her by making sure that she would be taken care of after His departure.
Prayer
ABBA, I ask that you forgive me in anyway I have dishonored my parents and I ask that you teach me how best to honor them for the rest of my days on earth, in Jesus name. Amen!
Further Reading
Leviticus 20:9 “Anyone who dishonors father or mother must be put to death. Such a person is guilty of a capital offense.”
Proverbs 20:20 “If you insult your father or mother, your light will be snuffed out in total darkness.”
Read through the Bible in 1 year: Exodus 21:22-23:13 Matthew 24:1-28 Psalm 29:1-11 Proverbs 7:6-23
Read through the Bible in 2 years: Exodus 10-11 & Psalm 35
